Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Huntsman's Failure to Defend his Daughters is Astounding and Utterly Disappointing

'Jon Huntsman' photo (c) 2011, Gage Skidmore - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0/
There is an outrageous video on YouTube you may have heard about in the news, it is all over media--especially conservative media.  A group alleging to support Presidential hopeful, Ron Paul, also alleges that other Presidential hopeful, Jon Huntsman, does not have the best interests of the people of the United States at heart because he has two internationally adopted daughters and they have posted a video featuring his daughters on YouTube to make their opinion clear.



Some sources say they have confirmed that Huntsman supporters posted the "ad" to make it look like Paul supporters posted it, in order to paint Paul as someone who is racist and willing to go over-the-line when it comes to opposing a fellow candidate.  It doesn't matter who it originated with or why: the video is absolutely horrible.  The "ad" if you want to call it that, clearly intends to portray the idea that, due to the girls' races and places of birth, his daughters are not true Americans and therefore Huntsman does not really care about the United States because he adopted them.  I won't tell you who I think the President should be but I will tell you that this "ad" and its racist, adultist, adoptist attack on children is disgusting and morally repugnant at best.  The Huntsmans' response to it was nearly as appalling and certainly disappointing.

Huntsman responds:
"I have a daughter from China who was abandoned at two months of age and left in a vegetable market, picked up by the police, and sent to an orphanage.  No future, no hope, nothing to look forward to.  And now she's in my family."
 audience applauds

He continues:
"I have a second daughter who was born in India...and left for dead the day she was born and luckily, she was picked up before the animals got her.  And she was sent to a catholic orphanage first day and spent a year there and now she is in my family."
He concludes:
"I have two little girls that are a daily reminder that there are a lot of kids in this world who do not have the breaks that you do who face a very very uncertain future that lacks health care, that lacks the ability to dream and plan, and any sense of upward mobility.  Now these two girls are on the Presidential campaign trail.  I say, how cool is that?"
Applause, applause, applause (of course)

I debated on whether or not to post about this on my blog because I am uncomfortable giving more public audience to on the "ad" or his reply to the "ad."  I talked it over with a transracial/transnational adult adoptee whose opinion I admire and we both agreed that posting about it further was problematic because it was drawing yet more attention to something that should not have been said in the first place.  However, since few media outlets are pointing out what should have been the correct response, we felt an adult adoptee response was needed.  It is for that reason that I write this entry as well as record some of the responses from adult adoptees and adoptive parents Kevin at LGA got when he brought the issue up on his Facebook page.

Can the adoptive parent who said this please be the next President?
"Huntsman's response: "outing" his kids' story to make himself look big hearted - made me even madder.  It was a racist attack on Asian-Americans and adoptees as "perpetual foreigners" - and implying that he is less of an American by association.  To publicly give away his children's narrative - which they are the sole owners of, as a response is appalling.  Why should his children need to live with "left to die," "found in a dumpster" as part of the public discourse?  I'm sure they are thrilled that their classmates and all their peers and Fox News now have access to their agency narrative. 
Someone attacked his kids, and he sold them out.
My stomach hurts."
Someone else responded:
"I guess no one runs for President without having a sense of himself (or herself) as the utterly fascinating center of a huge drama, but Huntsman's invocation of his children's 'tragic past' was unnecessary.  Can't he just say 'leave my kids alone' and be done with it?"
Another person was concerned as to whether or not this whole ordeal originated with Huntsman's campaign to begin with:
"The stats don't look good for him - his campaign was the first to link to the vid even when it had no views, etc.  And...even if he isn't responsible, his response still made me nauseous."  (She shared the link I included in my intro paragraph)
This "ad" was a racist, adultist, adoptist act that placed political goals over the welfare of innocent children.  If he was unwilling to simply say "leave my daughters alone," Huntsman could have used this as a teachable moment to enter into discussion about race and adoption.  Not in a White-guy-educating-the-world-on-race-relations kind of way.  But to step up and act like the leader he is asking the citizens of the United States to let him be and to condemn the notion that transracial/transnational adoptees are not really Americans or citizens (and perhaps learn a thing or two about transnational adoptee deportation?).  He could have said he understood adoption as well as foreign policy past the concept of "they're super poor over there and I rescued two kids."  Instead of defending adoptees, adoptees of color, and his daughters, he chose to defend himself and bolster his image by disclosing his daughters' narratives in order to paint himself as a savior.  His response perpetuated the misconceptions of "other people" in "other countries," especially the original families of adoptees, and did nothing to challenge racial, cultural, and adoption biases.

The Huntsmans' say they are concerned as to what their daughters will think about this incident some day.  Mr. and Ms. Huntsman, I can tell you as an adoptee that how my parents respond to attacks on me as an adoptee are 100 times more important to me than how the public does.  Unfortunately, your responses were sadly lacking.



Mr. Huntsman, I am Russell Green.  Are you?

16 comments:

  1. As an adoptee myself, I had a few weird feelings come up when I read his quotes regarding his daughters adoption stories. I wasn't sure what it was at that second, but Kevin explained exactly how I felt. Huntsman has absolutely no right to tell his children's story. Our stories belong to us and it is up to us when and how to share them.
    I am currently searching for my birth mother and as I found out information as to why and how I was adopted, I kept it a secret for awhile. I didn't feel like it was anybody else's business at that time. I wanted to keep it close to me while I work through feelings. I wanted to develop an opinion before I began to hear opinions of others. Even today, I am still pretty private and selective on who I tell my story to.
    I hope that Huntsman soon learns what those words really mean to an adoptee. "abandoned," "No future, no hope, nothing to look forward to," "and left for dead."
    Those words are so easy to say, but can hold a huge weight on an adoptee's shoulders that he/she may carry for life. It may be one thing to hear it from a stranger, but it is a different story when those words are said by our parents who "love" us so much.
    They are hurtful words and I personally are hurt by them as well.

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  2. I totally agree. I thought of course the "ad" itself was disgusting, but Huntsman's response was just as bad. Wrong on so many levels. It's like he wants Sainthood for "rescuing" these two girls. And using his daughters' PERSONAL stories for political gain??? Absolutely revolting.

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  3. The only good thing I can say is that I don't think he ever had a strong chance of becoming the next POTUS anyway.

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  4. Amanda you were so right to post this.Viewed from afar, it is disgusting, scarcely believable and so, so sad, but it seems typical of the way some will stop at nothing in their use of adoptees.

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  5. It's the old "adoption as rescue" rhetoric. Bad. Very bad. In addition, what does his language say about how Huntsman views his daughters' birth parents? Doubly bad.

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  6. Thank you for sharing your insights and the other quotes. Very helpful in helping me understand why it all makes me feel so sick.

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  7. Thanks for putting this out into the world.

    Martha

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  8. I dislike his response, but judging from his other statements, I'm guessing it was more from campaign nerves and a lack of foresight and empathy. I think it was wrong to broadcast his daughter's stories in his response. However, as unconventional daughters of a relatively prominent politician, they'll likely be in the spotlight a good deal. I think Huntsman's response was acceptable; not good, but acceptable. Best of luck to the family.

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  9. ZingR123, you are entitled to your opinion but I'll tell you that it's not campaign nerves. He has talked about his daughters like this even when he wasn't running for president. In a 2006 article when Asha was first adopted. The Huntsmans also painted themselves as saviors and disclosed her agency narrative to the world. It is not appropriate, it is not their story to tell. I would have been mortified as an adoptee. You can't be a parent and a savior at the same time. Either your kid is your kid and worthy of privacy and respect or they are your public charity project whose story you own. You can't have both .

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  10. Not to mention, we are taking the agency narrative as God-spoken truth when we are finding out every day new stories of supposedly "abandoned" babies who were actually kidnapped or, worse, sold by their families. Just a few months ago, some 600 people were arrested in China and charged with baby trafficking.

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  11. JUST ANOTHER narcissist politician playing to the right wing jingos, hope his kids have thick skin or learn to forgive. my daughter would b pissed.

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  12. I'm an adoptee and I happen to be facing uncertainty, in need of health insurance/care, I've lost faith in the American dream and I have a feeling I'll be stuck in poverty forever and lost unless I move back to Korea to be with my real family, who have been more loving to me in the short time I've known them than my adoptive family ever was over the course of my WHOLE LIFE.

    Not only did he disrespect his young daughters, but he just took a giant shit on the ENTIRE rest of the adoptee community and the countries that are allowing their orphans to be sent abroad. It's like we're just some accessory to these peoples' lives. It's unfair and demeaning.

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  13. I am also a First Generation Vietnamese adoptee and I understand how adoptees feel about their parents telling their adoptees' stories. I agree with the adoptees that Huntsman should have said to leave his adopted kids alone because their lives have NOTHING to do with running this country!! Adoptees are the ones who should tell their stories, not anyone else. Parents are supposed to be very supportive of them. If a Democrat candidate ran for president and he had adopted kids, he/she would say "It's NONE of your business about my adopted kids." Republican candidates are just too ignorant of the feelings of other people!! Look at how the country is now!! The condition of this country reflects on how they treat other people! They do not care about anyone, but themselves!! I cannot understand why minorities, especially gays, blacks, and women even support Republicans when they are anti-gay, anti-minority, AND anti-women!!

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    1. With Chinese adoptees, I feel very sorry for them because all the ones I have read about have been sold so that the Chinese can make money! They had been kidnapped and sold to foreign parents. We need to stop that practice!! So many Chinese families NEVER EVER wanted to give their children up for adoption in the first place!! When I hear about Chinese adoptees, I feel sorry for them that they might have been kidnapped and sold like they were property!! That form of adoption MUST and NEEDS to stop!!

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  14. Laura SchwartzJan 20, 2012 09:13 AM

    I am sickened by his response. It panders to the concept that adoptive parents are "rescuers" of poor, downtrodden orphans when, in reality, they paid big bucks to buy babies. I'm sure they didn't really care where they came from, as long as they could own them.

    As an aside, his comment, "who face a very very uncertain future that lacks health care, that lacks the ability to dream and plan, and any sense of upward mobility," could also apply to any one of us here in these United States in this dismal economic era.

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