About 5 days ago, the hashtag #ShoutYourAbortion made its debut on writer Lindy West's Twitter feed to her 60,000 followers, inspir...
Friday, November 23, 2012
What Should we Call Those who are Connected to Adoption?
I feel how an individual or a group identifies themselves is important. The words you use to refer to a person or group can mean the difference between insult or giving respect. So what do I think people should call the various individuals connected to adoption?
My rule of thumb is that I always refer to someone and their loved ones in the way they wish and in the way they feel that they are most respected. While I am not a fan of the term "birth mother," this includes the "birth mother" term. It is not up to me to undermine someone elses' thought processes and the meaning they place on an event, and their role in it, in their lives. I refer to people how they would like to be referred to. After all, how can I expect that same courtesy if I don't extend it to others?
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I began blogging in 2009 to try to find my original family and ended up becoming an author and activist for the adoption community. Two degrees in social work, two kids, multiple legislative campaigns, multiple published books, two collegiate teaching positions, a clinical practice, and advanced licensing later....I'm still at it and not giving up any time soon.